How to Take the Initiative in a Relationship

In theory, though, there should be no disagreements or disagreements between you in a FWB relationship. But it's just in an ideal state. Because you and your partner are emotional creatures, there are still many disagreements in this relationship. As with other dating relationships, there is still a gap between who takes the initiative and who is at a disadvantage in an NSA relationship. It's clear that the man who has the initiative has much more to gain than the other. If you don't want to serve another person all the time in this FWB relationship, you can take the following methods.

1. Don't always please him

I don't know if you've ever had such an experience. In any relationship, if other people always try their best to please you, then you will feel that this person cannot leave you. So you always have a proud attitude in front of him. In fact, it is the same in NSA relationship. If you seem to work hard to please him or for you, nothing is more important than his opinion, then you will unconsciously put yourself at a disadvantage. This seems to be the case. The less you care about a person, the more likely you are to get his attention. So even if you like him any more, try to give him the impression that you don't need him. This will arouse his desire to get you.

2. Say no to him bravely

If you are an inclusive personality, or because you want to make a good impression on your affair dating partner too much, and blindly agree to his request, no matter whether his request offends you or affects your life. If you think you can win his favor by such behavior, then you are wrong. If you compromise yourself, you will only let yourself lose the initiative and make him advance. For a long time, he will only care less about your feelings. In order to prevent such a situation, when you feel that his request is unreasonable, you should boldly refuse his request. If his words hurt you, you can consider going away. If you tell him what you can and can't accept when you feel uncomfortable for the first time, you will win more respect.

3. Always be confident

Believe it or not, men can't help falling in love with a very confident girl, because the confident girl can radiate the unique temperament that general girls don't have. Don't let him think you're in a FWB relationship because you don't have more choices. And you don't want to put your sexual partner first in your life. Remember, no matter what you do, the first person you should think of and please is yourself, not others. When you are confident enough to deal with anything, you can firmly attract your sexual partner's attention. You have to let him, if this relationship can not make you happy, you may leave at any time.