Let’s go first with the former word. You must be cautious if you have sex with your friends because it is hard to maintain this friendship once sex happens. Don’t mistake me. I don’t mean to tell you that all these hookup finders are risking their friendships for the FWB relationships and as long as you get into a relationship, your friendship will be in danger. If you can find out and obey these rules for a NSA relationship, you are able to maintain the friendship when you break up with your friends.
When choosing your sex partner, you must confirm that your friend share the same goals with you. Imagine that if you eager for sex while your friend want love. Without doubts that things will get bad. And we, human beings, usually driven by emotions, often cannot take control our emotions when the love spark is lit. However, from the moment you choose this NSA relationship, you need to know that you will lose your friend if you fall in love with him. Of course, it is hard and this is why so many relationships end up in failure. Choosing a person who seldom appears in your life and has little connection with you is also an alternative.
Another case is that even though you can control your emotions and stay away from these minefields, things will also get bad if something get wrong with your friends. What if he cannot control his emotions? What if his behaviors offend you? To avoid these embarrassing situations, you need to talk with your FWB about that before everything begins. Put all things in tale, such as what you expect the other person do and don’t; you should call him directly or send him messages if you want to see him and when you should give up this relationship and so on. You had better make everything between you crystal. In this way, you can avoid so many misunderstandings.
Though it seems that this relationship is not that easy to be maintained because there are so many things you need to pay attention to and prepare for a FWB relationship, these benefits of this relationship can make it worth being tried. Usually, we usually separate our relationships with our friendships. And this is the first time we combine these two together. Trust me! It will bring you with a unique experience. The most important is that you need to make a commitment to your friend meanwhile you can have sex whenever you want.